do you watch dramas???????

十几岁到二十岁， 血气方刚， 我叫你不要太冲动。
三四十岁， 成家立业，难免会有点头痛。
五六十岁， 事业有成，少只可能少了一点稳重。
七老八十， 全都有了，可惜手脚开始不能动。

what does above means, hmm......... put your time into good use. i wonder some of you can read this or not, obvious, there is only one reader that i question her ability to read this. haha......

i have came across some articles about the difference in the way men an women behave in their mind. and i have came across some of those examples myself. haha, yeah, i am the man, and of course put to some problem by the girl, she is still young. better not call her a woman.

for an example, if a boy buys a bun for that girl, and that girl found out that the bun was nice, so she asks the boy where did he bought it, he will tell the place, and with a smile on his face, a self satisfaction that he had bought something right to make that girl happy.

if the other way around, the boy asks the girl where did she bought it from, she 99% will say, "if it is nice, why do you care where did i bought it from?"

so, guys normally remembers what brought him where he is.
girls normally don't care what brought her where she is.

i wonder if you are aware of, how many times you hear the words "i don't care, you're gonna do this" from a girl and those same words from a guy? similarly, the words "i don't care, i am gonna do this" from a girl and from a guy. wou will be suprised, both the phrases seems to be so much friendlier to the girls' lips than guys'.

guys asks for explanation, and girls do not care about explanation.

haha, and that was me. i try to explain to everyone why i did so so, and what makes me think so. whatever, i explain.

to a girl, she says,"it is over, don't need to explain, why are you so stubborn and ego............ blah"

because she does not care, then it is fine. we are just different. i have a Y and the girl did not. i understand why she said so. and i know everytime she'd say the same to any guy that tries to explain anything to her. it just natural.

and that is how all our dramas come about. for an example, when a couple breaks up, the guy would probably want the girl to explain, or he would like to explain, but neither the girl would want to explain, nor she would listen to his explanation. later the guy feels very painful if he thinks he was treated unfairly, no given a chance to explain, and so does the girl cries feeling being treated unfairly, why didn't the guy take a step closer and ask for another chance to explain? dramas......................................................................................... i can be very sure, if the guy did, she would still reject it. next time you see a TVB drama, look out for what i have just said. this simple drama can take an hour long....

that article that says a small difference between how male and female behaves in their mind made me realise how important is EXPLANATION in making dramas. because half of the people in the globe is of one gender and the remainder the other gender, they have different minds, reacts different to the topic of EXPLANATION, they cannot understand each other, and all the time not giving other a chance to make things clear. and they make dramas. everyday. actually not only dramas, even some very good fiction was based on that. how good some one explains of given a chance to explain, determines how good or bad a misunderstood can be. and how good a drama can be put on it.